Do you know that 7 out of 10 ladies have
struggled all their life right from childhood to
adulthood? Will you blame such ladies if they
refuse to marry a man who can not boast of an
income good enough to manage a family?
The economy of this country has made it so
difficult that even a man that makes 150k a
month dares not think about marriage considering
the way it is celebrated in Nigeria and by the time
you remove monthly expenses from your 150k you
wil be left with little or nothing hence saving for a
wedding ceremony wil not even come to mind.
Now lets ask ourselves,how many men even in
their 30's have jobs paying 100k and above? How
many are even gainfully employed?
8 out of 10 ladies have no reason been single
even at 25yrs of age YES you read right but the
issue is with these ladies.
A typical Nigerian lady will state all she wants in
a man but even if she hides the "Must be
financially ok" part,it is very apparent that the
financial aspect to her is even more important
than the guy being GOD fearing. So in the past,
they have probably had guys that are seen as
poor by them practically asking them to be their
wife but because by her standard,the guy is not
financially ok enough,ITS A NO and gradually they
get older.
So the bottom line is that 8 out of 10 ladies want
a "financially ok guy" and in Nigeria of
today,just 2 out of 10 guys are financially ok so
the 8 ladies flock around these two guys and
because these 2 guys now realize they are hot
cakes,they just play around with these 8 ladies
and dump them for other fresh ladies and these
ladies who are desperately looking for a
financially stable guy to marry ends up becoming
single and searching again after wasting their
time with these 2 guys with the hope that these 2
guys will marry the 8 ladies and the never ending
crazy circle continues.
This is why i fear for Many Nigerian spinsters and
until they make up their mind to start a life with a
man even if he still struggling, we will continue to
have crazy increase in the number of averaged
single ladies.
#Toks
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